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Your life, family and finances in one place.

Tools for growth and effective living: family, business and financial systems.

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The thinking behind the tools.

The picture of life to let go of, and three simple maps to live by: your life, what you live on, and the society around you.

Let go of this

The common picture of a good life.

Step by step from birth to death. This picture leaves us miserable, lost or depressed whenever we fail to reach the next big thing, and turns our hearts against anyone who seems to be getting ahead.

BirthStart Nursery & Basic SchoolGo to High SchoolGet a DegreeGet a JobGet MarriedHave ChildrenPay BillsSave & InvestGet some propertiesRetire oldDeath

Live by this

The Effective Living Model.

A heartset of love, a mindset of growth and a skillset of wisdom, feeding purpose, principles and priorities, and work, wealth, relationships and health.

The Effective Living Model: a heartset of love, a mindset of growth and a skillset of wisdom; wisdom and values feed principles and priorities, which feed purpose; skills from wisdom and the growth mindset feed work and impact, wealth, relationships and health

Resources for Living.

Intelligence and skills, energy and material resources: the three things you live on, all in relation to time.

INTELLIGENCE& SKILLSENERGYMATERIALRESOURCESAll in relation toSPACE-TIME

From Transformed Individuals to Functional Societies.

Change one person and it carries into families, communities, schools and markets. Religious bodies, social enterprises, the media and government shape every level.

CultureEducationEntrepreneurship& skilled labourTaxResourcesProvisionInfluenceInfluenceIndividualsFamiliesCommunitiesSchoolsMarketsMediaGovernmentsReligiousbodiesSocialenterprisesNeedsPredispositionsThree armsto valueto perceiveto doHeartsetMindsetSkillsetLandCapitalLabourTechnologyExecutiveLegislatureJudiciaryPublic servicesLaw and orderCultureEducationEntrepreneurship& skilled labourTaxResourcesProvisionIndividualsFamiliesCommunitiesSchoolsMarketsMediaGovernmentsReligiousbodiesSocialenterprisesNeedsPredispositionsThree armsto valueto perceiveto doHeartsetMindsetSkillsetLandCapitalLabourTechnologyExecutiveLegislatureJudiciaryPublic servicesLaw and order

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Effective Living OS

For you.

Goals, tasks, health, work and money on one dashboard.

What’s inside ›

$9

One-time, on Notion

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Effective Living Family OS

For your family.

One shared calendar, plan and budget for the whole household.

What’s inside ›

$12

One-time, on Notion

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Effective Living Journal

Make your days count.

The companion journal to N.K. Emmanuel’s book Life: How to Live It, out January 2027.

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Effective Living Journal hardcover

Work and faith

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Business, not-for-profit and Bible study systems. One free, the rest from $5.99.

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Grow Podcast

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Why Your Relationship/Marriage Feels Like a Competition (And How to Fix It)

Episode 21

Why Your Relationship/Marriage Feels Like a Competition (And How to Fix It)

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How to Re-Ignite Passion as a Couple and Escape the "Roommate Syndrome”

Episode 20

How to Re-Ignite Passion as a Couple and Escape the "Roommate Syndrome”

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Here is Why not having enough could be an issue in your Marriage or Relationship

Episode 19

Here is Why not having enough could be an issue in your Marriage or Relationship

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The Hidden Reasons Why You Keep Having The Same Relationship Issues

Episode 18

The Hidden Reasons Why You Keep Having The Same Relationship Issues

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Why Your Relationship or Marriage Feels So Hard (and 5 Tools That Can Fix It)

Episode 17

Why Your Relationship or Marriage Feels So Hard (and 5 Tools That Can Fix It)

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